“If the therapist is to develop the capacity to stay relatively outside the family emotional system in his clinical work, it is essential that he devote a continuing effort to differentiate his own self from the emotional system of his own family…” (Bowen, 1978, p. 250).
After being introduced to family systems theory through an academic program, at work or through personal therapy, motivated people take up the formal study of Bowen theory. Once that process begins benefits quickly become apparent. However, no study of Bowen theory through reading, attending conferences, or group consultation is adequate without individual coaching oriented to the family of origin and extended family work.
Other psychotherapeutic disciplines emphasize therapeutic techniques employed by the clinician to treat the client and the therapeutic relationship to provide a healing environment. Uniquely, Murray Bowen maintained that the primary change agent is the clinician’s focus on their differentiation of self.
In addition to her private psychotherapy practice, Lorna offers a yearly small group consultation based on the format developed by Murray Bowen at the Bowen Center for the Study of the Family. Contact Lorna regarding coaching and for information about the consultation group.